Don't believe in no-win scenarios

Spock returns the kiss in kind: he has no desire to allow Jim to think Spock is in any way dissatisfied or wishes to stop. Or is, in fact, anything but just as desperate and wanting as his human partner.

After that kiss ends he continues to breathe for Jim to follow but brushes his lips along Jim's cheekbone, his jaw, his chin, and his lips. The question gives him a brief pause before he tips his head back up from where he's pressed another kiss to the hollow of Jim's throat to look at him.

"The situation is optimal," he says. "You requested that I 'Fuck you stupid.' I am complying with that request with the best method I know how to employ." He pauses again, gives him another soft kiss, and keeps brushing his fingers soothingly over his skin. "Please trust the process," he says, unaware of how silly that might sound in most sexual situations were it anyone but Jim, who knew what he was getting into with how Spock communicates, hearing it. "Please inform me when you are able to breathe easily and you feel slightly more relaxed. I will show you my intent then."